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Wednesday, May 20, 2015

Engage the Mind to Speed Back Pain Relief

Too often back pain is treated as only a physical problem by doctors. The truth is pain, back and otherwise, has a psychological component that influences the perceived level of pain. Additionally, chronic emotional stress can increase the amount of time it takes to recover.

Dr. John E. Sarno, MD from NYU has been a pioneer in the treatment of back pain. His approach always includes engaging the mind to speed physical healing. His books and insights make for excellent resources for anyone dealing with chronic pain. See all his book offerings on Amazon by clicking HERE.

Another good exploration of the mind-body connection is available in the article, "New Strategies to Manage Back Pain". To read that worthy article, click HERE.


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Stephen Carter
Stress Solutions, LLC
    

Important Note: This and all other postings to this blog are for informational purposes only. This and all other posts are not intended to diagnose, treat, or otherwise recommend any treatment for any medical or psychological condition. Anyone using any of the information contained in this or any other posting on this website does so at his or her own risk. You are urged to seek competent medical consultations with appropriate licensed medical professionals for any and all medical, psychological, or physical conditions.

Tuesday, April 7, 2015

Gain Clarity by Climbing Your Ladder of Consciousness

As we navigate through the ups and downs of our day, far too often we find the mind churning, turning, and blurring. Clarity and insights become strangers as stress drains energy and blocks access to creativity and wisdom.

What is the antidote? What simple actions - or non-actions - will bring us greater peace of mind, insights, and clarity?

The Ladder of Consciousness:

One secret lies in choosing to become aware of our thinking. I'm not talking about the "content" of our thoughts. Rather, we are best served when our conscious awareness rises above the content of thought and the emotions they generate. 

When we watch our thoughts float by without judgment we are climbing the ladder of consciousness for a grander, more expansive view. This is the purpose of mindful meditation. 

There are many rungs on our consciousness ladder. Like it's physical counterpart, we want to ensure our consciousness ladder is well maintained, firmly set, and ready to serve us.

Climbing the Consciousness Ladder Rung by Rung:

On the ladder's first rung, we are consumed in thought. There is no space, no awareness of anything but the content of a given thought and the attendant emotions that often overwhelm us as one disempowering thought is replaced with another. We are "lost in thought" and each moment feels like a never-ending struggle.

As we step up to the second rung, we are slightly more aware that there is a "Me" separate and distinct from thought and feeling. On this rung of the ladder, we still get lost in thought, but we're able to "wake up" more frequently to the reality that - while we have thoughts and emotions - we are not our thoughts and emotions. On this rung, we have greater access to creativity and problem-solving skills because we can take a step away from a given situation and gain greater perspective.

On the ladder's third rung we begin to realize a powerful truth: It is only when the mind is quiet that new thinking and insights can emerge into conscious awareness. At this level, the quiet mind seems to occur randomly. 

We're surprised when a new, fresh creative solution to a problem we've been wrestling with emerges. We're delighted with the new insight that came when we were driving, taking a shower, or strolling leisurely enjoying a warm spring day. 

It's Only a Thought:

When stepping up to the fourth rung, we are - paradoxically - taking more control by letting go of effort and struggle. It's at this level we realize not only that we are not our thoughts, but our thoughts are - well - just thoughts. They aren't "true" in any objective sense. Thoughts flow; they emerge, they peak, and they dissolve to be replaced by other thoughts...and then more thoughts through time. One by one thoughts go marching along.

At this level, we frequently have the expanded awareness to recognize and say, "It's only a thought". 

Discovering Your Quiet Mind:

In the moments following that "It's only a thought" statement, the thought dissolves and we enter into the realm of quiet mind, that open, expansive awareness that is the superhighway to intuition and wisdom. It's when the mind is quiet that deep wisdom moves us to informed action that is "just right" for the moment and situation at hand. 

The ladder of consciousness continues upward to even higher levels, but it is on the fourth rung where clarity begins to serve us with consistency and power.

Practice That Allows You to Climb Your Consciousness Ladder:

Let me suggest a simple, powerful practice that will help you easily climb your consciousness ladder.

Sit for five minutes and simply pay attention to your thoughts and the feelings those thoughts create. Just notice. Your mind will wander, but as soon as you notice you're no longer aware of your thoughts from a place of detachment, return attention to noticing the flow of thoughts.

After five minutes or so, you'll find yourself in a relaxed state of calm awareness. Now, for the next five minutes as thoughts flow, be an observer. As you notice each thought, say, "It's only a thought". 

Observe what happens. Thoughts simply dissolve. Your mind quiets even more. You are now in a state of awareness where fresh insights, deep knowing, and wisdom live and thrive. 

As you practice this conscious-raising method for a few days, you'll find it easier to enter that observer state of mind as you go about your day. Your stress will drop, your sense of peace will grow, and your ability to spontaneously experience fresh, creative thinking leading to informed action will become a life enriching habit. Life becomes a more joyous experience in every way.

The cosmic joke is this joyful playground is always teeming with freshness, positive feelings, and wisdom. It's only when the mind chatter is quiet, that we can perceive what is always there, waiting patiently to serve.

With light, love, and blessings,

Steve

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Stephen Carter
Stress Solutions, LLC
    

Important Note: This and all other postings to this blog are for informational purposes only. This and all other posts are not intended to diagnose, treat, or otherwise recommend any treatment for any medical or psychological condition. Anyone using any of the information contained in this or any other posting on this website does so at his or her own risk. You are urged to seek competent medical consultations with appropriate licensed medical professionals for any and all medical, psychological, or physical conditions.

Friday, April 3, 2015

Let Your Inner Baby Guide You to Greater Happiness and Learning

Photo Credit: Amanda Mills
Innovative research from Johns Hopkins University finds that infants have innate knowledge about the world and that knowledge creates expectations about how objects should behave. 
One surprising finding from this research is that when babies' expectations are defied, they are far more likely to learn. Simply stated, babies learn best when their expectations are defied.

In contrast to a baby's natural response of being curious and attentive to objects and situations that defy expectations, most adults finding themselves in similar situations are triggered toward negative emotional reactions such as anger, frustration, or overwhelm. In the presence of these negative emotions and reactions, our ability to explore and learn is severely restricted or eliminated totally.

Choosing a Different Response:

I suggest we choose a different response when objects, people, or situations don't behave as we expect them to. Choose to follow the ancient wisdom of Lao Tzu when he said,

"Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like."


Rather than resisting what is, become curious. Let the spirit of lightness and wonder replace frustration. You'll experience far more happiness and learning will occur spontaneously because you are in alignment with the natural order of life.

To learn more about this innovative research that highlights the role novelty and expectation plays in a baby's learning, watch this YouTube video from John Hopkins University:



















Steve

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Stephen Carter
Stress Solutions, LLC
    

Important Note: This and all other postings to this blog are for informational purposes only. This and all other posts are not intended to diagnose, treat, or otherwise recommend any treatment for any medical or psychological condition. Anyone using any of the information contained in this or any other posting on this website does so at his or her own risk. You are urged to seek competent medical consultations with appropriate licensed medical professionals for any and all medical, psychological, or physical conditions.


Resource References:


Abstract of article published in the journal, "Science": http://www.sciencemag.org/content/348/6230/91.abstract



Friday, March 20, 2015

Where You Walk Can Affect Your Heart and Stress

Photo Credit: Amanda Mills
Can walking near green vacant lots lower stress? According to a study from the Perelman School of Medicine at the University of Pennsylvania, the answer is "Yes".

Researchers found that study participants who walked near newly greened vacant lots experienced lower heart rates compared to walking near unkept, neglected vacant lots. Heart rates typically elevate when we are under increased stress and lower when we feel relaxed and calm.

"Our goal was to scientifically explore the connection between city environments and stress," according to the study's lead author, Eugenia C. South, MD, MHSP, a physician in the department of Emergency Medicine at the University of Pennsylvania. "We used heart rate as a physiologic marker of acute stress, and the reduction we found suggests a biological link between urban blight reduction strategies like vacant lot greening and reduction in stress."

Using heart monitors and GPS, researchers found heart rate reductions of 5 to 15 beats per minute (BPM) when people walked near greened lots compared to non-greened lots. These are significant differences according to researchers.

Lower Your Stress and Enhance Your Health:

Adding a walking regime to daily activities for most people is a health-enhancing, stress reducing action. The results of this and other studies suggest where we walk can influence our heart rates and stress levels. Choosing to walk in areas rich with green and well maintained open space may enhance health benefits above and beyond the physical activity alone. Always, of course, consult your doctor before engaging in any exercise activities.


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Stephen Carter
Stress Solutions, LLC
    

Important Note: This and all other postings to this blog are for informational purposes only. This and all other posts are not intended to diagnose, treat, or otherwise recommend any treatment for any medical or psychological condition. Anyone using any of the information contained in this or any other posting on this website does so at his or her own risk. You are urged to seek competent medical consultations with appropriate licensed medical professionals for any and all medical or physical conditions.

Reference: Penn Medicine Study Finds Being Near Greened Vacant Lots Lowers Heart Rates: http://www.uphs.upenn.edu/news/News_Releases/2015/03/south/

Wednesday, March 18, 2015

Chronic Worry and a Quiet Mind

Chronic worry is a huge contributor to elevated stress. In the Theatre of Mind, we can become transfixed with one imaginary disaster movie after another. 

"Life isn't safe", our thinking goes. "If I worry enough about this situation and all of the terrible possibilities, then the answers for every painful iteration of possibilities will somehow appear."

In truth, however, the opposite is true. Regardless of how difficult a situation appears, worry will never solve it. We are far better able to deal with adversity with a clear, calm mind.

In correspondence with a client today about experiencing chronic worry, part of my message included the commentary,

"When we stay rooted in the 'Now' - this moment - there is little sense of time, past or future. In reality, 'Now' is all we have. Past and future are constructs of the mind. Resting in the present moment brings peace; nothing else can."

Chronic worry can't penetrate a quiet mind. When the mind is quiet, the answers emerge.

I'm reminded of Lao Tzu's guidance:



For tips on quieting the mind and opening your consciousness to the deep 
wisdom waiting within, send us an email by clicking HERE.

Blessings,

Steve


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Stephen Carter
CEO, Stress Solutions, LLC
    


Important Note: This and all other postings to this blog are for informational purposes only. This and all other posts are not intended to diagnose, treat, or otherwise recommend any treatment for any medical or psychological condition. Anyone using any of the information contained in this or any other posting on this website does so at his or her own risk. You are urged to seek competent medical consultations with appropriate licenced medical professionals for any and all medical or physical conditions.



Monday, March 16, 2015

Parental Depression Causes Anxiety & Bad Behavior in Toddlers

It's not often that researchers use the term "cause" when assessing variables in human interaction. Usually, the words, "correlation" or "association" are used.

In a study recently completed by a team led by Sheehan Fisher of Northwestern University, researchers found that depression in dads, as well as moms, causes anxiety and bad behavior in toddlers. 

Fisher, an instructor in psychiatry and behavioral sciences at Northwester University Memorial Hospital, commented, "Fathers' emotions affect their children," Fisher said. "New fathers should be screened and treated for Postpartum depression as we do for mothers".

What You Can Do:

If you're a new parent - father or mother - the research is clear: your mental and emotional states have a profound effect on your children. 

At Stress Solutions, LLC, we encourage expecting and new parents to take action to manage and master stress, anxiety, and depression. This not only helps new parents cope, but the research tells us well-adjusted parents have a higher probability of raising happy, well-adjusted children.

If you believe you may be at risk for depression or other problem emotional or mental challenges, the wise way forward is to seek professional help early. 

For tips on stress and parenting, send an email to CarterMethod@gmail.com.

With love and light,

Steve


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Stephen Carter
CEO, Stress Solutions, LLC
    


Important Note: This and all other postings to this blog are for informational purposes only. This and all other posts are not intended to diagnose, treat, or otherwise recommend any treatment for any medical or psychological condition. Anyone using any of the information contained in this or any other posting on this website does so at his or her own risk. You are urged to seek competent medical consultations with appropriate licenced medical professionals for any and all medical or physical conditions.


References:
http://www.northwestern.edu/newscenter/stories/2015/03/toddlers-in-trouble.html



Tuesday, March 3, 2015

Wanting and Having Sex - Primitive Biological Drive or Whole Brain Experience?


Brain diagram. Credit: dwp.gov.uk
Some aspects of brain research are far more interesting than others. Take, for example, the research on the brain's role in sex.

In a very scientific sounding article entitled, "Functional Neuroanatomy of Human Cortex Cerebri in Relation to Wanting Sex and Having It", researcher Janniko Georgiadis of the University of Gronigen, the Netherlands, tells us what we believe about which parts of the brain are predominantly involved with sexual responsiveness "ain't necessarily so".


According to Georgiadis, 


"Neuroanatomical textbooks typically restrict the central nervous system control of sexual responsiveness to the hypothalamus, brainstem and spinal cord."


It turns out, however, that sexuality in humans is far more complex and rich than previously believed. The process related to the sexual pleasure cycle template - wanting sex, having sex, and inhibiting sex - is truly a whole brain affair. Each of the sexual response phases requires shifts between functional cortical networks. These same regions also are involved in instances of sexual dysfunction.


And which region of the brain is involved in all three phases? The cerebral cortex, the outer layer of neural tissue in humans and other mammals. It seems our cerebral cortex can conduct the symphony orchestra of sexual pleasure.


What Does This Mean for Us?


So, what does this mean for us? It means we have more conscious connection to the sexual pleasure cycles than we may have believed. We know from other research that thoughts can create physical changes in the brain. 


Thoughts literally change us physically, emotionally and spiritually. As I often remind my clients, "every thought is a prescription and a prayer. 


Upping Your Inner Game


So we at Stress Solutions recommend you up your Inner Game. Engage your powers of imagination to create special moments of intimacy, first in mind then your physical world. Your thoughts, words, touches, and a sense of spiritual connection with your partner light up your brain and body. 


Remember, optimum sexuality is a whole brain - mind - body - spirit experience. For maximum stress relief, take the podium and direct your orchestra often.


Warm blessings,


Steve


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Stephen Carter
CEO, Stress Solutions, LLC
    


Important Note: This and all other postings to this blog are for informational purposes only. This and all other posts are not intended to diagnose, treat, or otherwise recommend any treatment for any medical or psychological condition. Anyone using any of the information contained in this or any other posting on this website does so at his or her own risk. You are urged to seek competent medical consultations with appropriate licenced medical professionals for any and all medical or physical conditions.


Reference:

Janniko Georgiado, "Functional Neuroanatomy of Human Cortex Cerebri in Relation to Wanting Sex and Having it". http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/ca.22528/epdf